A big Demi Lovato update: relationship with Jutes, new music, returning to pop, and more!

How is Demi Lovato doing now? How is she in her relationship? Is she pregnant? Did she get secretly married?

So many questions and I am here to answer all of them.

Let’s start with the wedding… that did not happen.

On October 4th, Deuxmoi posted that Demi secretly got married to her boyfriend whom she’s been with since the summer of 2022.

A reliable source tells me that no Demi did not get secretly married to Jutes.

Demi is currently not pregnant, but she wouldn’t be too far from it. As she said in interviews, both she and Jutes have spoken about their relationship long term so it’s not written off. She’s just not pregnant right now nor has she been.

In terms of how her relationship is going with Jutes, I am told that Demi is BEYOND happy. She’s IN LOVE LOVE.

I don’t often report that with Demi. I didn’t report that once during the Dilmer era (when she was dating Wilmer Valderrama… barf), nor did I report it during the Max Ehrich era (yikes), so I am happy to say that she’s super happy right now.

There is 1 sus thing I am trying to work out about her relationship with Jutes, so I will update you when I can.

The last time I talked about them was in 2022 when their relationship was first revealed to us through People Magazine and fans had a theory that Jutes cheated on his past girlfriend with Demi… but Demi came out to say that they were friends for a couple of months before they got together.

Jutes’ ex-girlfriend said that she doesn’t want to be involved in any drama surrounding him and Demi so it’s a good sign that we don’t have a vindictive ex trying to expose anything.

Fans were sus at first when Demi & Jutes debuted mainly because People Magazine broke the exclusive first and it had my crazy a$s throwing up “PR???!!!!!” everywhere, but it was nothing more than just her publicist breaking the news and garnering some hype before the album release.


2023 has so far been amazing for Demi. She’s been sober and actively working on being sober and moving on with her life… thinking about settling down and having a family… and she’s happy internally.

Demi has also been looking incredible and when Demi looks her best, she feels her best. And I’m happy that things are finally looking up for her since she really had me in the first half.

I exposed in the Tell All Reveal that she did relapse again and again after she claimed she was sober, and I only revealed that when she revealed it first so you guys should be paying attention to the Tell Alls!

I told you guys to ask me questions on Twitter so I’ll do a little Demi Q&A right now!

Let me know if you enjoy these and if I should do them moving forward.

Relationship status — head over heels happy with Jutes, not married.

As for the next album, Demi is always working on music, but ever since she parted ways with Scooter Braun, both she and her new team/label are trying to repair her public image and make her commercially successful again.

This is also why we see Demi finally attending cool events such as the VMAs or high-profile fashion shows.

I spoke about this in my Demi post from the summer of 2022 where I said, I love Demi, but the general public finds her annoying because of all her self-made scandals. We as fans can sit here and preach about why we think she’s right for the froyo drama or whatever else happened, but regardless, it already tainted her public image.

I’m listening to the DWTDTAOSO album and tell me why I didn’t know her streams were THAT LOW. I mean maybe I’m used to seeing Taylor’s streams or whatnot considering of my time in the Taylor-Conversion-Camp (TCC), but Demi has a bunch of organic hits under her sleeve and she should be able to get them again.

The reaction to her 2023 VMAs performance was everything and it reminded me of Demi’s commercial prime.

Obviously, the industry is very different now and there are a bunch of newer stars and if Demi never gets that commercial success again, well she had her run, but her new label & team are trying to market her better to the general public. In shorter terms—they’re finally doing their job.

Jk, it wasn’t always the team’s fault. Demetria was at fault too because she can be overbearing in public. She never was media savvy.

The genocide in Palestine is something I am not interested in using for stan points. When I drag a celebrity for their stance, it’s because they’re literally idiotic, I don’t use it to be like “haha you stan this when I stan this.” They’re all disappointing and illiterate.

The thing about celebrities and the government is that they work hand in hand. The government uses celebrities for propaganda and it works because the majority of them are thirsty for a check and they barely have the ability to critically think. Also, a lot of them can barely read. I’m not saying that to be funny but educationally, they would probably fail 5th grade social studies.

Demi ended up exposing Israel in the process of getting dragged by taking a trip there.

I know, it’s not an excuse and honestly, I’m tired of celebrities wanting praise for being charitable and philanthropic but not doing sh!t. I also find it counterproductive to focus on them than the actual cause.

And it’s not an excuse to be uneducated at this grown age. I’m not saying that for Demi only, I’m saying it for everyone.

It’s Free Palestine, then, now, and forever. It’s not complicated at all and I can cream any person—politician or celebrity, on the topic. That includes you too in the comments. However, I don’t waste my time going back & forth with ignorance (personally, I want to debate Justin Bieber on the topic, nothing like an OG dragging).

The facts are in front of you and you get to choose what side of history you want to be on. If you want to learn more, you can check out my Instagram highlights.

As far as I know, the decision was mutual.

She has some new pop bops recorded right now. It’s not going to be rock forever so let’s see if they make it out of the drafts 👀

Demi is happier doing rock because she associates pop with bad times. She associates it with exhaustion, constantly needing to outdo yourself, having to fit the standard, needing to look perfect, being fake for a photo, and so much more. It’s mentally draining, at least for Demi.

It’s not mentally draining for the likes of Taylor Swift.

Rock is more comforting to Demi but she sometimes misses being that pop girlie. And yes, she does care about success but it doesn’t overtake her like it does for other people.


Well that’s all for this post! I hope you guys enjoyed it. Let me know what you think in the comments and if you have any other questions. Check out the Reader’s Hub to see what other readers are up to and what topics they’re discussing over there.

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